FAQs: for anyone in doubt -- Introduction: Make every day Independence Day -- The reason to believe (recognized). Success is a planned event! ; Don't honk the wrong horn! Being true to your brand ; Cinderella had a fairy godmother: you don't! ; Apology not accepted ; Say what you mean: not what you think they want to hear ; Sharing is for sissies: directing desired outcomes -- Reinvention tension (rewarded). Vent with a purpose ; Assertive, not aggressive: nobody likes a bitch ; What goes around, comes around ; Don't be invisible: you never get more than you ask for -- Edge the ledge (promoted). Right ladder, wrong wall ; The essence of I.C.E.D. ; Advancing in the 21st century: "Who and how" in the "New and now" ; It's showtime! -- Epilogue: Clearing the way.