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Title:
For your own good : hidden cruelty in child-rearing and the roots of violence
Author:
Miller, Alice, 1923-
ISBN:
9780860688990
Personal Author:
Uniform Title:
Am Anfang war Erziehung. English
Publication Information:
London : Virago, 1987, ©1983.
Physical Description:
xvii, 288 pages ; 20 cm
General Note:
Originally published: London : Faber, 1983.

Translation of: Am Anfang war Erziehung.
Contents:
Vantage Point 1990 -- Preface to the British edition -- Preface to the original edition -- HOW CHILD-REARING CRUSHES SPONTANEOUS FEELINGS: GLIMPSES OF A REVERED TRADITION: "Poisonous Pedagogy" : Introduction -- Breeding grounds of hatred: guides to child-rearing from two-centuries -- Summary -- The "sacred" values of child-rearing -- The central mechanism of "poisonous pedagogy" : splitting off and projection -- Is There a Harmless Pedagogy? : Gentle violence -- Pedagogy fills the needs of parents, not of children -- THE LAST ACT OF THE SILENT DRAMA: THE WORLD REACTS WITH HORROR: Introduction -- The War of Annihilation Againt the Self: The lost opportunity of puberty -- The search for the self and self-destruction through drugs: the life of Christine F. -- The hidden logic of absurb behavior -- Adolf Hitler's Childhood" from Hidden to Manifest Horror: Introduction -- Hitler's father and his relationship with his son -- Hiter's mother: her position in the family and her role in Adolf's life -- Summary -- Jurgen Bartsch: a Life Seen in Retrospect: Introduction -- "Out of the clear blue sky?" -- What does a murder tell us about the childhood of the murderer? -- The walls of silence -- Concluding comments -- STEPS ON THE PATH TO RECONCILIATION: ANXIETY, ANGER, AND SORROW--BUT NO GUILT FEELINGS: Unintentional cruelty hurts, too -- Sylvia Plath: an example of forbidden suffering -- Unlived anger -- The permission to know -- Afterword -- Appendix.
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